"Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it." Greg Anderson
Easy for him to say! All he ever has to do is wash and shave. That's because he's a man.

My journey starts with the FIRST BLOG; you'll need coffee/tea and probably some chocolate digestives, or maybe some Cadbury's Fruit and Nut, or Green and Black's Organic if you've got more money than sense.

Thursday, 9 June 2011

Meanwhile Back at the Ranch...

I've made a date with one of the other three. We spoke on the phone for about an hour. He's really entertaining and a good conversationalist. And let me tell you why I shall be going on a date with him.  

Never in a million years would I ever entertain a relationship with him: he is just not my type. Hence, I am not being remotely 'unfaithful'I'm so glad. So very, very glad. I shan't be visiting the convent for a quick confession after all.  

But wait, er, um, oh no! There's something wrong with this too! Is it morally right to go on a date anyway, thereby giving someone else a moment of hope and also wasting their time, even if you know absolutely nothing is going to come of it? 

Mon Dieu, c'est vraiment trop difficile! 


D said...

Go... have fun... as I've been telling my husband, who recently had several job interviews... use the time to get some experience...! When the right job comes up, you'll be an expert and will know what to say and do!!

Cousin Bette said...

D- Have fun? HAVE FUN?! I must have been nuts! What was OK on the telephone was a nightmare in real life! I spent the last one and a half hours of the 'because it's only decent' two hours surreptitiously looking at my watch! Had to go to the loo and share my misery via text with Stella. Roll on Mike. Or even, ...roll on Mike. Hehe!

D said...

Well... back to the drawing board, CB. All is not lost, though. Had you not gone, you'd be wondering, night after night, whether or not you should have met the blighter. When the world hands you lemons, make lemonade! (skipping around, hugging bunnies and letting bluebirds of happiness sit on my outstretched hand).

Downith said...

Lesson learned? Coffee only for first date - easy to make a quick get away.